Monday, July 5, 2010

Proud to Be an American





I still stand for the National Anthem and so do my kids. We treat the flag with respect, honor soldiers, and learn all the words to the Pledge of Allegiance. Yet, still i feel a great lack of patriotism. I mean, less than my Grandfather's generation. My Granddad was US Air Force. He flew the planes we see in pictures and museums. He knows first hand the life saving value of a properly packed parachute. He served in war and in peace. He was the "true blue, all American man." He stood 6'2", but i thought he was at least 7' tall as i stood next to him on the street that day, probably 30 years ago, with his hat in his hand and his hand over his heart. Those colors marched by as proud as could be and so was I. My Grandpa helped make all this celebrating possible and I was sure proud of that. Here we are, 30 some years later living in the same country, but some how that "stand tall" feeling is not in the crowd the way it was then. The great grandpas are not here to brag and exaggerate a little with their stories of "the way it was." I want my kids to hear the hush of the crowd when the colors are raised. I want them to never feel comfortable sitting when the National Anthem is played.

I do not really know how this "feeling" of patriotism is passed on. When they are 6,4 and 3 can they understand? I don't know, but I dressed them in Red, White and Blue and told them a few things they may not remember then let them eat ice cream because this very special day is America's Birthday and we are proud to be Americans. They will probability remember the ice cream...

3 comments:

Ronnie Ruiz said...

Great post!! I share you thoughts. I too feel it's not the same as the 'greatest generation' and sometimes wish I had lived as a young man during those times. But I think you are doing something awesome to bring out the importance to the kids. Not enough people are doing that these days.

The Bergstedt's said...

Thanks Ronnie. I wonder what it would be like to have seen the first TVs and then the first ipods. I think we are too busy to feel deeply and be passionately committed.

Beth said...

Wonderful post. Hopefully there are enough of us left to pass on these values to the next generation.